People define happiness differently. Human being generally are very educated on how to treat a broken leg.
We are very educated on how to treat a gunshot wound. But we are not very educated on how to treat a broken heart.
Emotional trauma is something that as a human race, we are handicapped in. We do not teach, we do not have tools, and beyond that, we are not very supportive of the healing process that is necessary for healing a broken heart.
When you get a wound or when you get hurt by something, how do you get yourself treated? What or who helps you in the healing process?